What?
We'd love to celebrate together! With smiles, warmth, and affection - but hopefully without too many serious expectations. We also want to (HA!) sign our names under the idea of sharing good moments with good people. To say a few words, have a drink, toast to health and happiness, and (hopefully) create one more nice memory together.
Additional details mentioned throughout the text below will be clarified closer to the date in question. Maybe...
A special thanks to our wonderful Maid of Honor and Best Man - Daniela and Valeri!
When & Where?
So that the programmer behind this page doesn't have to worry about security protocols, the details were sent through the medium by which you received this invitation. You can also just call or ask directly.
There is now a timeline.
Who With?
The invitation is for you and your permanent or temporary partner. Or, in honest terms - if we know you as a couple, you're both invited. If the invitation is individual, you are very welcome to bring a plus-one of your choosing.
We love your children and it's always a pleasure to see them. However, we would sincerely appreciate it if you did not bring them along. The same probably applies to pets.
Dress Code...
Anyone who knows the bride knows that a lot of thinking has gone into this.
Terrifying amounts of thinking about how to phrase it and what exactly to say. Apparently I was also supposed to add mood boards.
Dress festive and polished, but imagination is encouraged. There's no need for overly glamorous outfits. Please do not buy unnecessary clothes you'll never wear again, and don't torture yourself with uncomfortable shoes - unless they are extremely beautiful.
Dressing as Gandalf from Lord of the Rings is OK. A full Stormtrooper suit - it's OK. A Victorian dress with a corset? OK. Your prom dress? Still fits? OK. The dress you wore as a bridesmaid at a wedding seven years ago but still think is adorable? OK. Full men's suit - OK. Beige trousers with a shirt and suspenders - OK. Graphic T-shirt with a blazer? OK. Scheherazade costume - as long as you don't buy unnecessary polyester just for the event, OK. Full Caribbean pirate costume - but please only if it's seriously detailed. There will be rum. Have fun - just make sure you feel good in what you wear!
Tracksuit? Formal tracksuit? Yoga leggings? We know you, we love you - you're better than that. On paper (ha, the web) I can sound harsh, but in person I'd probably get embarrassed, since we do actually like you.
Color request - could we ask that ladies avoid wearing entirely red? Is that too bold of a request? Unless it's the Britney Spears "Oops I Did It Again" jumpsuit.
Black is OK.
Food & Drinks:
Drinks are on us and the venue will operate as an open bar. How long we can financially sustain this decision is a question that will clarify itself as the evening progresses. If the moment comes when the barman starts looking at us worse than expected, we'll warn you in advance and switch to the standard payment system. You'll have to work a little for that, though. Until then - drink responsibly, or at least interestingly.
Food will be buffet style. If you have allergies or specific dietary requirements, please tell us when you RSVP. There will be cake.
If the food runs out, we'll order pizza.
Ah, gifts.
We love you, we appreciate it, but that's not why we're doing this. If you'd like to support us, we'd be grateful if you respect the following emotionally-financial "plan".
At the event there will be three jars / boxes / bowls - still undecided:
Jar one - cards only.
Jar two - money for a trip / kitchen renovation / new bed sheets.
Jar three - donations for a cause we'll confirm. Almost certainly something related to animal care.
We'd appreciate it if you leave a card without any money in the first container, and then, at your discretion, place financial gifts in the other two jars. We promise they will be used for exactly what they say.
In the same spirit, please don't bring flowers, fruit, or cheese - put their financial value toward a donation instead.
Accommodation?
The event will take place in Sofia, the city where we met and have been living for years.
Since we're unable to cover accommodation for our beloved friends who don't live in this strange city, we would be very grateful if those who travel from afar do not bring any gifts. Taking the trouble to come is more than enough for us.
Tables?
Don't look for name cards. We trust your excellent social skills to mingle, talk freely, and sit wherever you feel comfortable. The entire venue will be reserved for us.
If we feel it's necessary, we may place a sign in one corner for antisocial individuals who simply want to glare while drinking non-alcoholic beer.
And finally...
For any additional questions feel free to reach out through the usual channels! We're looking forward to seeing you (and also slightly terrified of the organization ahead). Much love to all!